• ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world
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    10 hours ago

    And if I have to ask for an apology, you already fucked up. You don’t know what hurts people? No, you’re too cowardly to admit to your mistakes. You won’t even whisper ‘sorry’ but you’ll hurt my feelings out loud? Mhhhm. 😤

    I’m a sensitive guy, lol.

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      11 hours ago

      Having shitty parents helps interpret this. They never apologized, they just waited till they thought enough time had passed that I should have gotten over whatever they had done. With this dynamic, you, the victim, are basically trained to allow them to walk all over you and be happy for it. They can do nothing wrong, you’ve done everything wrong. A round about way of being gaslighted.

    • latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      11 hours ago

      I think it’s about not going the “oh, they’ll get over it eventually” route instead of a proper apology?

      Or I’m overthinking a shitpost, could be that, too.