Singing is one of the few things that brings me joy and wanting to sound just like Eivør was one of the things that made me start to question my gender identity. So if anyone is familiar with voice training as it pertains to singing, I’d be eternally grateful for tips.
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I think the fundamentals for voice feminization will apply here - at least her voice sounds more attainable, so many girls just want to sound like Ariana Grande who has a voice that is extreme even for cis women to emulate (it is girly, higher in pitch, lighter, and smaller than most women’s voices).
Personally I found it distressing to compare my voice to cis voices, I always found that set me up for worse training - I know voice therapists will want to know voice goals and help you on that path, but I personally thought it was better to set more pragmatic and less emotionally laden goals - basically to pass on the phone and in person as a woman rather than to achieve a particular target voice.
Either way, recommendations are generally to start daily practice of vocal warmups: semi-occluded vocal tract exercises (SOVTEs) like blowing raspberries or into a straw, use a pitch detector and learn to produce a pitch (helps to have a digital piano app so you can listen carefully to the pitch and then learn to reproduce it), then try pitch sustains and slides from the bottom to the top of your pitch range. Over time you can develop capacity to produce higher pitches.
With pitch while talking, you just want to not fall too low, but for singing pitch matters much more, so that’s why I recommendation daily sustains and slides. By sustain I mean producing and singing a particular note for as long as possible, you sustain each note as much as you can. This strengthens the voice. Slides are going from one pitch and moving to another, maybe up and down a few notes, etc. You can even try sliding from your pitch ceiling to your floor. This helps with agility and the ability to change pitch without the voice cracking or breaking.
Regarding vocal feminization, here is a beginner’s guide:
Broadly the two main gendering qualities to a voice are weight and size. With voice training the general idea is to:
ear train: learn to recognize when you weight is heavy vs light, when size is large vs small
mimic and experiment: learn to produce voices that are different weights and sizes, and esp. how to balance those to produce a typical feminine voice (suitably light and small)
practice: just keep listening and recognizing when you’re slipping up and to adjust your voice back into the feminine range, over time and lots of persistent practice, this habituates and becomes your voice!
For exploring weight:
For size:
For more about the balance of weight and size (called “fullness”):
Videos to help guide expectations for beginners:
For beginners it can also be helpful to explore more achievable lower-pitch feminine voices:
To ear train, it’s commonly recommended to listen to and “play along” with Selene’s clips:
Note: as you experiment or do any voice training exercise, make sure to pay close attention to:
Experiments to try:
EDIT: in case you are curious of how effective this vocal training can be, here is a clip of my voice from 6 months ago: https://vocaroo.com/1kSpmaG1Khj2
EDIT2: also, did some pitch detection and her singing in Song to the Siren & Tròdlabùndin seems to be between C4 and C5 - the higher end of those pitches might be hard for me to produce as strongly as needed for singing in a performance, but they are definitely within my pitch range and could be strengthened such that I can use them when singing, so maybe they are for you too?
You might try using a pitch detector and establishing what your current pitch range is. I can’t seem to produce a pitch much lower than G2, and my default pitch / baseline was at C3, so my voice is usually between C3 and C4. I just try to not let my pitch fall below E3, since that dips into to more masculine territory.
Thanks for such a detailed response! I’ll definitely go through everything here. I’m currently on week 6 of having little to no voice, but I want to dive right in when it finally subsides.