The mantle of greatness on my shoulders is getting heavy. It sounds horrible but I totally get why so many of us fall to either affairs, alcohol, or divorce.

Its just SO unrelenting. Its a nightmare. I have no energy to do anything after a 60 hour work week, cooking, cleaning, walking youngest to bed until 11 pm and then waking up at 5. One day off a week. I’m just so fking over it 🤢

  • whimsy@lemmy.zip
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    3 hours ago

    It’s okay if you don’t want to answer but I wanted to ask what makes you stay married to your wife if she’s abusive?

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      3 hours ago

      Women get the default on primary custody of children. It an effective line of attack to threaten to take tge kids.