The mantle of greatness on my shoulders is getting heavy. It sounds horrible but I totally get why so many of us fall to either affairs, alcohol, or divorce.
Its just SO unrelenting. Its a nightmare. I have no energy to do anything after a 60 hour work week, cooking, cleaning, walking youngest to bed until 11 pm and then waking up at 5. One day off a week. I’m just so fking over it 🤢
Why are you cooking and cleaning after a 60 hr work week? I work 40 hrs and dont do any of that. I have offered to get a house cleaner to help her and she refused. Where is your partner? Do they work 60hrs as well that they cant help? You are headed to an early grave on this schedule!
I wanna know where the other social supports are. If neither of you have family that give a fuck where are her mom friends and where are your dad friends so you guys can pool childcare? (There are also other configurations, the gendered model is just the most common).