Women get the default on primary custody of children. It an effective line of attack to threaten to take tge kids.

I bagged any hope of a career. I’m not going to advance, or ever make anymore money. But I have a job that is flexible enough to give me time to care for my kids. I’ll never retire. I’ll just get fired and never get another job when I’m too old.

Found I pretty much had to give up anything not helping me. So No alcohol, trying to do without any fried food. Since I’m always tired been going without extra caffeine, decaf coffee always.

But pretty much all that leave me slightly less failing to get everything done.

Basically I just look at being a dad as thing I get to do.

My wife is abusive so that really drags down the equation.

Hell yea! Gotta go big to get a real effect. Put the filters in rooms that are 1/2 or less the rates size .

I have Honeywell filters in each bedroom . So much less dust. the pre filters catch most of the dust and they can be cleaned and reused.

By all means try a tooth pick and pure alcohol, if that doesn’t work a professional might get you set straight.

Repair shops can do a better job cleaning than a home option. I had a data and charge problem, bought a kit and tried 3x times; it didn’t work . Bought new cables just in case that was the issue. Brought it in for repair fully expecting to pay for a port repair. Repair shop did a through cleaning charged me $15 and sent me on my way with everything working.