What would a FOSS dating app look like?

  • nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    8 hours ago

    95% of your male users would have zero swipes on the app, and then stop using it

    and most of the women will swipe on 5% of the men

    so it’s the same result as the current tinder system, except im not swiping 500 girls for an hour. yea, it sounds good

    the app could give the guy some performance metrics. view count, swipe ratio. he can make tweaks to his profile, a/b test. and women would be driving the experiment. it could actually be pretty interesting

    • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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      5 hours ago

      the tinder system doesnt’ show you how 99.9% of women are rejecting you. just like the lottery, the point is the delusion that you might ‘win’ even though statistically, you won’t ever.

      if the average user saw that reality, they’d give up. they would not try to improve.

      apps can’t fix biological imperatives. all they do is magnify them. i’m a guy who gets matches on apps regularly… most women interpret my profile as the complete opposite of what it says. it’s hilarious. but that’s because people see what they want to see, they don’t see what you literally tell them.