When “doing it”, are you regularly thinking about putting clothes away, which clothes to wash next or if you emptied the washing machine? Or when you washed your clothes the last time?
Is it distracting to the point you get soft (for penis havers) or dry (for ADHDers with vaginas)?
Haha I remember a buddy telling me his two go-to things to think about to keep him from premature ejaculation: his little brother masturbating, and his dad having a bath.
I like to harmonize melodic minor modes in my head…