• InputZero@lemmy.world
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    2 hours ago

    Yeah but have you ever tried to care for aging parents outside of a retirement community, sucks all your time, money, and energy leaving nothing else for the rest of your family. End of life care is a great place to extract wealth if you’re heartless. People are their most scared and vulnerable, they’ll pay anything to feel normal for just a little while longer

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      Yes, my mother has advanced Parkinson’s and I was her primary caretaker for years before we finally had to move her into assisted living. I know very well how ill-equipped our society is for elder care.

      People always talk about how it takes a village to raise a child, but we rarely talk about the village required to care for our elders.

      Personally, I would rather kill myself than end up in a facility like my mom is in.