So, I posted about not wanting to shave despite my family and the guy I like wanting me to. Someone on another social media platform (I know Lemmy isn’t like other social medias sometimes) said that it was because the guy I like was transphobic and saw me as a girl. Is his behavior transphobic for wanting me to shave my private areas and legs? I think it’s just a preference…


neither your family, nor a partner should get a say in that. it might just be a preference, it might be the result of some deep seated transphobia, but either way they oughtta just accept it if you don’t want to, and not try to pressure you.