I have been thinking a lot about digital sovereignty lately and how quickly the internet is turning into a weird blend of surreal slop and centralized control. It feels like we are losing the ability to tell what is real because of how easy it is for trillionaire tech companies to flood our feeds with whatever they want.
Specifically I am curious about what I call “kirkification” which is the way these tools make it trivial to warp a person’s digital identity into a caricature. It starts with a joke or a face swap but it ends with people losing control over how they are perceived online.
If we want to protect ourselves and our local communities from being manipulated by these black box models how do we actually do it?
I want to know if anyone here has tried moving away from the cloud toward sovereign compute. Is hosting our own communication and media solutions actually a viable way to starve these massive models of our data? Can a small town actually manage its own digital utility instead of just being a data farm for big tech?
Also how do we even explain this to normal people who are not extremely online? How can we help neighbors or the elderly recognize when they are being nudged by an algorithm or seeing a digital caricature?
It seems like we should be aiming for a world of a million millionaires rather than just a room full of trillionaires but the technical hurdles like isp throttling and protocol issues make that bridge hard to build.
Has anyone here successfully implemented local first solutions that reduced their reliance on big tech ai? I am looking for ways to foster cognitive immunity and keep our data grounded in meatspace.


The Charybde en Scylla analogy hits home. It is a classic mistake to think we can patch a logic flaw in society by just upgrading the hardware or switching to a new instance.
You are right about the marketplace mindset. When platforms treat humans as inventory, we start acting like products. We optimize our profiles like we are trying to rank on a search engine instead of just existing. It is exhausting and the only people winning are the ones running the servers and collecting the data. It is a full time job that pays nothing and costs us our sanity.
Living in a place where the local scene is thin makes the digital world feel like the only air available. It is easy to get stuck in the loop of looking for a perfect match online because the local options feel non-existent. But your point about being different together is interesting. Maybe the goal should not be finding a mirror image of my interests, but just finding someone who is system compatible even if they do not know their way around a config file.
I am still going to tinker with my home lab and keep my privacy stack tight, but I need to remember those are tools and not the actual life. The real exploit is figuring out how to be human in a world that wants us to be data points. Thanks for the perspective. It is a good reminder that even on the fediverse, the most important connections are the ones that happen when you actually step away from the keyboard.
100%, and this is the hardest fight all of us will ever have to fight because there is a lot of incredibly powerful interests that want us to become, and to remain, mere ‘data points’, not people. They want us to stop thinking we’re equal to them. They want us to be ok with not being… considered and treated as human beings.
When we stop being human like those powerful people, it’s the moment they feel its perfectly OK to have a cop fire shots at a women sitting in her car, you know. Because we’re not people, we’re mere… headless chickens, or data points.
Not that such an attitude would ever be tolerated in our perfect democracies.