All I know is that I love anyone (with a preference for women) regardless of gender. I would say gender does matter to me since I prefer women, but I would love anyone regardless, and would gladly date women, men, and everyone in-between. not only this, but if my love transitioned, I would still love them.

  • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    13 hours ago

    I’m not being dismissive, because I understand what it is to want to understand where you fit in with the world, but does it matter?

    Giving something a name can definitely help sometimes, but it can also “lock you” into an identity, and I promise you that your desires will change and develop, come and go

    I abandoned the idea of categorising myself quite a while ago, because I have different tastes to what I did a couple of years ago, and I expect that I will have different tastes in my future as life goes on and things change

    I any case, good luck with the whole process, self-discovery never stops while we’re still growing and thinking!