All I know is that I love anyone (with a preference for women) regardless of gender. I would say gender does matter to me since I prefer women, but I would love anyone regardless, and would gladly date women, men, and everyone in-between. not only this, but if my love transitioned, I would still love them.
I break the mold. 40 years old and I say I am pansexual. The only way I wouldn’t have sex with you is if you had a barbie doll crotch and only because I wouldnt even know what to do with that.
If they’ve still got a prostate, anus, nipples, neck, or mouth, you might be able to make it work with enough foreplay. I made a woman come from licking her nipples once. Definitely hard-mode though.