it might not be, but my recent ex did that with others. she said she found out she was aromantic but while we were dating, didn’t have feelings for me and didn’t make jokes or flirt with me but she would with others.

    • emi (she/him)@thelemmy.clubOP
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      now she’s claiming to have feelings for me and saying im so nice but she could never say she loved me and she ghosts me

      ok so she didn’t see me that way at all and just wants to be friends

      • Aether Crescent 🌙 @lemmy.ml
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        Alot of people now and days have a twisted form of dating. Just move on to the next and enjoy the idea of her (the good times if any) as a memory. She seems low quality and no one will probably have a happy or successful romance with her overall.