https://delta.chat/en/help#e2ee
I gave it another try last week
- the onboarding automatically creates a username/password on the server you selected, more details here: https://chaos.social/@delta/115479392746850836
- E2EE using openpgp
- fast and light on resources
It’s still in development, it’s not a fully fledged replacement for Matrix yet, but I could see it replace Signal at some point.
For a list of servers: https://chatmail.at/relays


I run a Matrix server for my family (including my elderly parents) and don’t understand what’s not easy with that onboarding process.
Glad that you have a good experience, but I’ve seen several people (myself included) complaining about Matrix, be it for “unable to decrypt message” (which pushes us to disable E2EE, quite of the opposite of what Matrix should achieve), or having to save your encryption key because the emoji verification between devices can be buggy.
I’m talking in a case where people all belong to different servers, it must be different if you self host the servers for your family
Indeed I only offered up my experience since you mentioned self-hosting and family.
That makes sense. I think for me DeltaChat could be used both ways: both as a ‘people I know’ messenger, and both for ‘Internet chat room’
Having multi account support from the get go compared to Element X would also help with that