Not exactly, mine is kinda borked because of the browser, it performs like crap, something to do with Nvidia drivers, I think, I’m not bothered with choppy scrolling but choppy video and super laggy overlay and big picture are annoying as hell.
I had the same problem in manjaro plasma kde as I have in mint cinnamon.
It’s no the prettiest out there but it’s not ugly at all, there’s no place for violence since you don’t even see any other character outside of emails
What age range? I’ve seen “house flipper” give great results, I think in general those simulator games that give the dopamine hit of completing tasks are good incentives, especially chill games (nothing time based, let them take their time). I’ve found something like “a little to the left” is not actually great for that, it requires precision and an eye for pattern recognition that just causes frustration when you think you got it but nothing happens.
I am yet to have a successful testrun of wayland, closest I’ve had was everything seemed to work fine but some games would straight up not work. I’m sure it would be just fine if I installed a distro that had it by default but at that point it’s way beyond the convenience I’ve heard so much about.