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  • I think the amount will depend on you. Are there any hobbies you have put down and come back to before? I’d start with those, and expand as necessary. I’ve also found it helps to have hobbies with different levels of energy requirements. Writing, for example, take a lot more mental energy than watching Star Trek, so Star Trek is a good fallback for me. Often watching an episode or two will be enough to get me in the mood to read, or write myself.

    TTRPGs are high energy investment as well, but they have the added benefit of being a group activity, so there are other people I’m motivated to not disappoint by flaking. I would definitely recommend a regularly scheduled social hobby. It can be a lifeline when everything else is chaos




  • I agree with everyone else. Having a bunch of different hobbies that I can bounce between keeps things fresh and exciting. They can be related though. For example, I enjoy writing, I also enjoy reading. And I love sci-fi and fantasy in television, movies, and video games as well. And I play TTRPGs in various genres. Oftentimes, because of how related a lot of my hobbies are, by the time I start losing interest in one specific thing, I’ve already been inspired in something adjacent. So overall, it’s like one big hobby that I slowly work theough




  • I am right there with you in games. I’ve been playing Enshrouded with my partner and some friends recently, and we’ve gotten into arguments on continuing the quest, versus exploring, versus building lol

    It’s very interesting to me to see how other people can just walk past something without looking into it, or, even more foreign to me, remember it, and come back later. I, personally, have to completely explore an area outright the first time, because I know I will not be interested in going back through it in the future




  • Monkey-see, monkey-do is a powerful survival skill. For neurotypical people, it’s easy to just reproduce learned behaviors, without the reasoning behind them. I find interesting parallels with generative AI. You see it a lot in creative pursuits especially. So many people totally miss subtext. I think you also see it a lot while driving.

    And it’s largely an education problem. There’s no reason neurotypicals can’t think critically, but it’s much easier to teach them to just slot into a role without any real understanding (Religion is very good at this). I think that’s also the reason conventional education can be so difficult for people that aren’t neurotypical. It’s meant to teach you what to do, not why

    I definitely find myself to be at an advantage compared to most neurotypical people I have worked with. In aggregate though, the ease they have moving with the flow can end up being more of an advantage in the long term, especially in largely neurotypical spaces. It can be very frustrating



  • A story? I’m currently writing like 5 lol

    I have a novel that I’m through like 1/5 of, though I have it mostly outlined. It’s a fantasy story set on a world where the sun heats the surface of the planet beyond habitable temperatures during the day, so the people live in caverns. The main story is about two civilizations that separated hundreds of years ago after a cavern flooded, the differences that grew up between them, and the conflict when they finally meet their forgotten cousins again.

    I’m also working on a fantasy novella about a construction worker that got trapped in a dungeon he was helping to build, when the enchanted defenses were activated before it was complete. He spends the first section, over 80 years, trapped in complete darkness within the small antechamber inside the main gates. The magic keeps him alive as basically a skeleton, so the story is about his experience feeling his body rotting away around him, the mirror of the dungeon that deteriorates over time, due to environment, and adventurers, and what he does to cope.

    I’m also working on a sci-fi novella, inspired by Dr. Who. It’s a space mystery about a hospital ship with a monster on board, and the main characters are a maintenance worker for the hospital, and a multi-dimensional alien that manipulates events throughout time, on the basis of the quantum uncertainty principle. Basically, the idea is that there’s wiggle room in Time, and you can take advantage of that, as long as you don’t get spoiled for what’s supposed to happen.

    And I decided it would be a good idea to not just write a fanfic, but to completely rewrite one of my favorite sci-fi novels, Skyward, by Brandon Sanderson. I’m working on the outline for that right now. The idea is basically a What-If, where the main character decides to listen to everyone around her, and give up on becoming a pilot. If I do it right, I should be able to rewrite the whole series, with the same beginning, and the same end, but with extremely different events in the middle. It should be fun.

    And as if all that wasn’t enough, I’m also doing a ton of writing to create a Westmarch setting for a D&D game with some friends. I’m setting it in the Forgotten Realms, and trying to use as much official lore as possible, so this has required a ton of research, but has been really fun. Between Evereska and Cormyr, at the headwaters of the River Reaching, stands the perfect mountain to hide a dwarf city built in the upper reaches of the Underdark. Players are going to have to adventure through the abandoned dwarf city, to get into the darkness below


  • Infynis@midwest.socialOPtoADHD@lemmy.worldJust got diagnosed
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    5 months ago

    My PCP recommended me to a specialist office that does neurological testing at scale, so I was able to get through it all pretty quickly. I asked about it at my yearly insurance physical in March, got an appointment for online testing on the 3rd, and got my results two weeks later. I was surprised by how easy it was. I have pretty good insurance from my job.

    Here’s the specialist I used

    I’m not sure if they take patients outside Michigan or not, but everything I did was remote, so I don’t see why they couldn’t. Their reviews on Google are bad, but my experience was great, and I’ve had friends say good things about another doctor also at this practice






  • I have definitely used my difficulty starting tasks to help myself lose weight. I find its way easier to just be hungry than to make food. Most of the time.

    I still have to make sure I’m not eating snacks without thinking about it. A good option for me has been keeping easy, small, healthy foods, that can get me through hunger pang. My favorite is a pot of Greek yogurt. They’re like 80¢ at Aldi where I live. Fresh fruit works great as well! And for late night treats, I eat frozen fruit. It fills the ice cream niche, without being packed with calories and extra sugar