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Cake day: June 14th, 2023

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  • This sounds a lot like problems my fiance and I have had. She’s diagnosed, I’m still working on that. She also has OCD. She gets stressed very easily when preparing for a trip, and used to get worse and worse approaching her strict departure time, which has caused some conflict between us, as I am habitually late to things.

    We’ve been able to work it out, by just having a conversation about how we get ready. Now I try harder to hit her target time, and she allows a little wiggle room. It’s taken a lot of stress off of us both, making the whole process easier. It’s still a chaotic mess, but at least we’re not fighting about it anymore lol