Sounds like the people you hang out with on discord are poor company.
Discord does an excellent job of facilitating connections between people. If you dislike it because of the people you connect with, that’s not a Discord issue, that’s a people issue.
The Discord experience very much depends on the people on the server that you’re on. Any medium is just enabling connections, though. The connections themselves are what matter.
From my experience, you need to find a relatively small/niche group for deep connections to form. I’ve found several communities like that. Although, I think my experience is heavily influenced by me being neurodivergent, and finding groups of other neurodivergent people that I get along with. Like, finding groups of nerds who share the same special interests.
It’s hard to tell which of my memory issues are from ADHD and which are from other neurodivergences.
How does Discord cause the issue?