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Cake day: July 26th, 2023

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  • Verbal communication is horribly inefficient. This is why smaller teams can very often accomplish more than larger teams. The communication overhead, including miscommunications, grows more than linearly. Us detail oriented people give more detail than the average person can obsorb (nor wants to). This causes an increase in the “yes” response just to end the discussion.
    On the flip side, non-detail oriented people on average have a really hard time seeing all the potential interpretations of thier words. To them, thier interpretation is the only one that exists. So any question either means the questioners is dumb, or doesn’t trust them.

    I believe the solution for the later is generally to communicate some pleasantly about what they said that reassures them that you trust them or something. But I have yet to be able to build that habit. For the former… write docs (if we are talkjng work). Then speak concisly and reference the existence of the docs. They probably won’t read them, but it can fill our need to communicate the details and allow us to be more comfortable leaving out details in the conversation. At least to me, the details are a compulsion.