

This isn’t even an issue from Fairphone’s perspective. […] and even those issues that do exist are fringe cases that consumers do not care about.
There are no issues but those that exist are not important?
there is nothing actually wrong with Fairphone devices from a security perspective compared to the majority of its competitors
Update speed is a major issue and Fairphone is not great at it either. Yeah, it is not the worst offender, but that does not mean that it is good.
people new to this space think it is the only solution to stock Android’s privacy issues
The other solution is not to use Android, but that brings a lot of new problems. That being said, which other rom is on equal footing with Graphene? I am not aware of one. Even if you differentiate between privacy and security: most degoogled roms still connect to google servers - for SUPL, connectivy checks, NTP, etc and that is unnecessary. For security we can basically just reduce it to update time which is atrocious in all of Android Roms with the exception of GrapheneOS. e/os/, the other preinstalled option for fairphone, is especially bad when it comes to this with updates lagging weeks to months behind in critical security updates. It also advertises as “fully degoogled” which simply is not true when it still connects to google servers.
And then we get comments lile yours that frame GrapheneOS on Fairphone as an achievable and realistic thing that could happen with better communication, even though neither party is interested in pursuing that.
So? I’m aware that my hypothetical idea is not the reality. But what hinders it from becoming the reality? As far as I am aware the humans behind each organization have mouths and ears, no?
What about XMPP? What can Matrix do, that XMPP cant?