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Cake day: July 7th, 2023

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  • I think everybody has pretty much nailed how to verbally respond, but I think it’s important to mention how to internally respond to it.

    Any advice given should be honestly considered. It’s human nature to think our own idea is better than anyone else’s.

    Sometimes the situation is unique and other people don’t know all the finer details like you do, and what worked for them just doesn’t apply to you.

    Other times, they may know more you think they do. Don’t take it as gospel, but consider any warnings or possible solutions that didn’t cross your mind before.

    More information and diverse perspectives create better solutions.















  • Definitely some bias here.

    Nobody posts “My wife and I love each other very much and we are very happy. What should we do about it?”

    So, most of these situations aren’t good to begin with, and typically when there’s a dispute, people tend to paint the other person in a much more negative light. Often in the case of “He did this for NO REASON!” usually there is a reason we don’t know about, and commenters might be more willing to suggest staying together if they knew what that reason was.