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  • Senal@programming.devtoAutism@lemmy.worldfriendships are hard
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    4 days ago

    I agree but I’d also add that this doesn’t automatically make them bad people, just people who aren’t’ compatible with you.

    I’m not defending them, It’s entirely possible they are bad people, but it’s not a given.

    What i mean by this is that it’s not necessarily because of some flaw with you or them, it can just be that you don’t match up right now(or ever).

    I think it’s important to understand that sometimes the only way to find out if you match is to try it and see, it sucks when it doesn’t work out but the alternative is never really finding out if it could.



  • If you’ll notice I mention the biggest offenders and/or the the underlying management infrastructure.

    Private jet owners getting systematically luigi’d would also fall under that remit, I was just using data centres as an example.

    Oil rigs, Nestlé, blackrock etc would also all work , with varying degrees of efficacy and difficulty.

    To address your argument directly, before you get all preachy think of the actual consequences of major data centres going down, all the critical infrastructure running on said data centres would also go down.

    That’s air traffic control, shipping and logistics ,and yes, agriculture; any system relying on cloud services running in those data centres

    If you pick the right ones and do it properly (a competently executed strategy, if you will) then you could cripple most industries, with all the consequences that brings.






  • Stating something is true with no supporting argument other than “I said so” followed by some shaky(at best) logic doesn’t leave much in the way of conversation points.

    But lets give it a go.

    Firstly there was no demand or proposal for any demographic to partake in the activity mentioned.

    Secondly, assuming the first point wasn’t true, by your rationale there would be no way to mention any activity without it being a suggestion that all current recipients must immediately perform said activity, which it patently ridiculous.

    Thirdly, the suggestion that you are a best in class mental gymnast isn’t a thought terminating cliche, perhaps you could claim ad hominem but as I said before ,“I’m right, because reasons” doesn’t leave many conversational avenues open.






  • They can, and do, but that’s not exactly what i was getting at.

    I was saying that a (hypothetical) person, completely free of autistic traits can acquire traits very similar to how autism is expressed purely through CPTSD experience.

    I fully agree that you can get ASD + CPTSD for the extra special double dose of the fun times, but it’s possible to have one without the other.


  • From what I’ve been told over the years by various different head people, the overlap between the outward symptoms of cptsd and autism is somewhat large.

    The underlying causes are usually very different, but the expression has enough overlap that they always check for cptsd markers and questions.

    In my anecdotal experience, of course.

    It’s also entirely possible to have both, which makes it even more complex.



  • Senal@programming.devtoAutism@lemmy.worldAutism and meditation?
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    Even when learning to play a instrument you get feedback. When you twang the strings with your inexpert fingers and make a sound. That’s a huge source of guidance.

    Ah, so you meant feedback.

    Agreed.

    I don’t think we’re actually disagreeing, i think i just misunderstood what you meant.

    I do know from personal experience, anecdotal as it may be, that there are situations where certain feedback isn’t registered properly, or at all.


    This example is fully contrived, but I’m going somewhere after so bear with me.

    Take the example of the gym and that the feedback is the muscle soreness experienced after, what happens if that person doesn’t feel pain ( again, i know it’s contrived ). The effect would still be there but the feedback wouldn’t be registered.

    I know pain isn’t the only feedback here I’m using this specific example as reference.


    So meditation is a good example here, especially for the neurodivergent.

    Let’s take the semi-common comorbidity of Alexithymia.

    Not being able to recognise or properly associate the emotional feedback of whatever method of meditation you are practicing does somewhat limit the understanding of the process/benefits.

    But, and this is key, it doesn’t actually inhibit all of the effects of the meditation.

    There is ofc a cognitive aspect to using the feedback to guide what you are doing, but it’s not a hard requirement.

    Think of it like emotional exercise where at some point your mind just buckles under strain it didn’t know was there and up until that point nothing was feeling any different.

    It can be deeply unpleasant and even harmful, but it can also be a benefit if handled in a useful way.

    I’m not saying it’s common, but i’d imagine its more likely than you think.


  • Senal@programming.devtoAutism@lemmy.worldAutism and meditation?
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    Hmm , i was working with the assumption you meant tangible results/benefits, seems i was incorrect and i retract my statement partially.

    I will however die on the hill that not everything has immediate (or immediately noticeable to be more accurate) effects.

    Learning to play an instrument doesn’t always result in an immediate increase in ability, same with martial arts (the skill portion, not the physical/exercise portion).

    If you limit yourself to only the things that have immediately noticeable effects then you are excluding potential paths for growth.