

I know I’m not exactly hitting the mark, have you looked at kagi? You can personalize the weighting of results from certain sites. You can also add lenses which will let you drive results to forums, programming, academia, etc.
To me it was a bit like reliving the early days of google with the don’t be evil mantra still in tact.
Let me also say, it appears to be privacy respecting.
It has been good for me so far. If someone sees a reason I should run away from this, please let me know why and what we all should use instead, I’d appreciate it!
I fully respect if it’s just not in the budget for you. A company has to make money somehow. I’d rather pay than get ads or worse let them collect and yet worse sell my data. Also, you can use a burner email and vpn if you want to add an extra layer of obfuscation in there for privacy.
Here’s a few links from their faq.
https://help.kagi.com/kagi/faq/faq.html#why-trust
https://help.kagi.com/kagi/faq/faq.html#why-should-i-pay-for-search
https://help.kagi.com/kagi/faq/faq.html#why-does-kagi-search-require-an-email-address
I really hope I don’t come off as a shill for them. It’s one of the few companies I actually really like.
I also run proton family, and really like the product offering. Their leadership gives me anxiety though. Promos and sales are only for new customers and standard pricing is a bit steep, but you do get multiple services.