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Cake day: June 18th, 2023

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  • The point is the legal benefits and publicly declaring your love and commitment, if you care about that.

    You can spend as little as you want, if you only care about the legal status. But since you are probably asking about the usual big wedding - it’s really just throwing a party to celebrate the act. It’s not mandatory. Invite people you want to party with and celebrate life in a way you want.

    What can suck about it is the peer pressure from parents and other people to do it the way they want, to do it “properly”.




  • Fair enough. I was not going for “it’s evolutionary, so let’s just do nothing”. The whole argument herr is thay laziness doesn’t exist, because there is a root cause. Well, this is just semantics really. Being lazy is not wanting to do something. Is there a root cause behind it? Sure. If you go far enough it’s just biology (allegedly).

    Does tiredness not exist? There is usually a root cause to you being tired.

    I feel like this “lazyness doesn’t exists” is there just because being lazy has negative conotations. I think being lazy is good. Sometimes you do need to wind down and save what energy you have. This ofc shouldn’t be an excuse to not do anything ever. There is something as too much of a good thing and all that.














  • illi@lemm.eetoFediverse memes@feddit.ukOf course
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    23 days ago

    When I need to run terminal, it’s because I’m following a specific guide to fix or setup something. It’s not much different than following a similar guide for Windows, except there might be a bit more copy+paste going on on Linux.

    The omnipresent mentions of terminal also delayed my switch and it was completely unnecessary.