Welcome to reddit!

You have to submit a logical proof twice every sexual.

This is a joke to be clear. There used to be a great blog on tumblr called “You’re bi enough” that dispelled a lot of these misconceptions.

I was shadow banned at one point without any notification. I got it reversed once I knew it happened. The filters are completely opaque too. I had no idea why I matched the filter.

I remember when I first used Reddit feeling much the same way. However there has always been boatloads of toxic users and posts there. The only redeeming communities had dedicated volunteer admins because general content moderation was awful.

However once they pushed the toxic coontent to the forefront and made the site much more walled off, a lot of those admins left. The result is the site as it is today.