to quote pulp fiction, personality goes a long way.

what happens when you dont have personality to make up the difference? you just need to learn to be happy with yourself.

honestly you should start with being happy with yourself which helps with the confidence to demonstrate a good personality… then you might win the relationship lottery… might.

its definitely a little less polished than sherlock, but i love the ‘reluctant genius solves impossible crime’ trope

i just binged the entire run of jonathan creek this week and im super annoyed there isnt anything else quite like it

zero. it would require 2/3rds of the senate and that will not happen. they barely have the house.

so part of your room and board is tech support services? sounds fair.

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https://moist.catsweat.com/u/@[email protected]

i kinda like mbins ‘reputation points’ ex:

yep, its complete possible, though i dont use it for very many people… mostly george tekei

ex:

you can do it. you just need to open the magnifying glass for Search and paste in the address for the mastodon account… same as subbing to a remote magazine.

if you search for someone youre already following, or click ‘following’ under your profile and click the remote user you will see their posts.

here is George Tekei’s feed who is on universeodon

you can follow users on mastodon on mbin.

here is a screen of me searching for and following a mastodon account:

when i was younger i glossed over the situation and focused on the funny. as i got older better understood the circumstances and the more i came to hate this movie. its not really williams thats the problem its the entire premise/script of the manchild fucking over many peoples lives because he himself is just a terrible human being.

i cannot find doubtfire funny in any capacity. its sad, revolting.

https://fedidb.org/

https://fedidb.org/software/lemmy

lifes too short to deal with assholes. blood relative or not. fuck that shiit

i disagree.lemmy absolutely is a forum (subject-based threaded discussion). mastodon absolutely is not.

are there jerks in the fediverse? yep. many bad actors.

many server ops will defed known nonreciprocal servers. ‘scrapers’

they are different server platforms using the same protocol for different purposes. mastodon == federating twitter, ie ‘old man shouts into the cloud’. lemmy == federating reddit, ie threaded discussions.

there are so many perfectly good non-federating server products as to make this question moot. lemmy is the wrong platform for a stand-alone environment.

they do federate with others though… so not stand-alone as op is describing

no. its the wrong tool for that job.

there are already dozens of good stand alone forum products. there would be no need to use a purposefully federating platform where half the code is put to federation. silly.