I think I can relate. I deviate from the norm in a number of ways, but everyone’s different, so I didn’t think much of it. When I was filling out the questionnaires for my ADHD testing, and saw the specificity of the questions and how relatable they were, it was a watershed moment.
I don’t doubt my diagnosis, but I do wonder how extreme my case actually is. I often forget about it until I fall behind. So often it’s some disruption in the systems I didn’t realize I depend so heavily upon.






I’ve heard it referred to as “The worst negates the bad” fallacy.