Just want to let you know, you typed a lot of text thinking you were being helpful but you’re really, really not. The condescension and belittling really just ends up with you being a dick to someone while feeling good for “helping”.

Ayo, guess what, too fundamentally broken as a human being for real relationships so a fake relationship with someone who can’t hurt me and who I can’t hurt is looking pretty damn nice

Erotador, totallynotjessica, kewwwi, and squirrel are by far the people who post most there and they’re all women.

My yin, I’m the one with the blahaj zone account here

Are you talking about browsers/commentors? Cause almost all the prolific posters are women, unless you’re being transphobic

The end of denial changing the dysphoria is so real and something I haven’t seen anyone else talk about. Thanks.

Being a healthy weight, even underweight at times, and still hating my body fat because my body isn’t the right shape. Dealt with that for a long time without realizing it for what it was, just thinking I was fat. Not feeling comfortable being a boyfriend. Being attracted to men and being fine with it but also feeling off, like I was attracted to men but wasn’t gay. Wishing I was a lesbian. Being really jealous when a transfem friend of mine changed her voice. Being uncomfortable having people interact with my dick, and discovering bottoming and having that feel like who I was supposed to be.

Your eyes must be really dry

Idk the majority of posters there are transfems afaik, with a smattering of femboys posting as well.

Hahaha the name doesn’t do it justice tbh, *cel has connotations that femcelmemes really just doesn’t have

I’ve said it many times before and I’ll say it again, gender relations here are worse than they were on reddit when I stopped using it.

Yep. You’ve probably heard of square space, shopify is similar. All the online small businesses I know use it, and many larger ones too

They could bust je passionate about spoonerisms

Stop being the person the meme is about

Stop being the person the meme is about

Lol kinda wild to me seeing flatpak hate as a new Linux user (running fedora with kde). Flatpaks have just worked for me and it’s been fantastic

In the metaphor, the black hole is nihilistic, all-consuming, apathetic depression, and I just want to stop struggling, let everything fall apart and fall in and kill myself

My brain is like a planet with a very thin crust with a black hole inside. Everything I am is built on this extremely delicate shell of stability, and sometimes it seems like I spend most of my time clinging to the edge after having fallen through. Medication makes the shell thicker and more stable, but there’s still a black hole in my head and it’s never going to go away and I’m so tired of fighting falling in.

The biggest thing stopping me from doing anything is that the steps to do something are multiplicative for me rather than additive how it seems for other people. If I’m dreading fixing and tuning my printer, then I just won’t print anything. For months. Until a magic day comes when I’m able to get on with it (Yeah, I know I’m a shitty low functioning person, you don’t have to mention it). Getting a Bambu let’s me actually print stuff and helps me not get locked into paralysis about it for months. I hate it’s a closed and easily fucked over ecosystem, but it’s a choice between letting me function or not. I dunno, I’m really rambling without a point, I just thought someone might find some value in this

No clue, I was just frustrated with how much useless extended metaphor was in the article and thought I’d save people some time

TL:DR: minimize randomness, group variables by access frequency, and unroll loops if your compiler doesn’t do that already