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  • I usually choose to have a podcast or music on, but sometimes it’s really nice to just appreciate my surroundings. I like to hear birdsong, or the wind, the rain. Even cars passing. It’s nice to be grounded in the world.

    Even when I have music, I spend most of my time when I walk (which is a lot) not looking down at the ground. I look around, and I try to appreciate the little things. The other day, I noticed a really, really polished front door on a house I was walking past. The wood was so bright red and all of the metal was this gleaming silver, it was really striking! There are wild parakeets in the city I live in, so getting the chance to see these beautiful green birds swoop overhead is a treat, too. Where I live is quite hilly, so getting to see what I think are beautiful views of the urban sprawl interspersed with big tree plumages in the green spaces is pleasant, too. Sometimes it’s quite imposing, it’s not always a pretty and cheery sight, but it’s always beautiful.

    When I don’t have music or podcasts playing, I feel like I can appreciate those sights a bit more. Picking up on snippets of other people’s lives is interesting, and I find my mood is easier regulated when I just ground myself in the world around me rather than disappearing up into my head with the podcast or music playing. If I have sound on that I focus on, I’ll often not really remember my walking to and from work, but if I’m just experiencing the world, I’ll usually find something memorable. I find that slowing down and taking the time away from tech has been nice for me, sometimes.







  • if I can chip in some unsolicited opinion here (I know it’s a little rude) – you’ve made really nice expressive sprites with a lot of personality. In my opinion, even if the AI would make it faster to animate, it seems a shame to not use the artistic skill and style you’ve clearly honed to animate what you’ve drawn here.

    I’ve done pixel art for browser games before, and I understand that animating is painstaking and can be a total slog. However, I do feel like the choices we make during animation are personal to us, and really make an important impression on players.

    Unless you’ve got a tight deadline or something, I think you could make something really cool by hand!

    That being said, to be totally honest, I’m biased against Gen AI, especially in artistic pursuits.


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    It is so weird that you keep declaring everybody who doesn’t agree with you is addicted to smartphones. Your AI spam and your fixation on upvotes/downvotes is annoying.

    Other people in these comments have suggested a few existing solutions that may help you, like Newpipe, and you’ve replied telling them to keep doomscrolling.

    I understand you’re not a professional coder and that’s fine, as long as you can understand that nobody is going to be impressed with the LLM output you’ve pasted, or with your excuse of “it’s okay for me to use LLMs because AI is already ruining the internet” as if that makes any sense.



  • Congratulations on 90 days! Huge achievement, you deserve to feel proud. I’m also going through a bit of a journey with sobriety.

    Around the three month mark was a bit of a difficult time for me, too. I’d gotten over the constant temptation, but was still tempted while IN bars. I was isolating socially, and spending more time alone.

    Having that time alone, and having some free headspace rather than focusing on not drinking, led me to boredom and restlessness. There was a lot of ruminating on mistakes I’d made, or on things I’d missed out on, or on how I absolutely had to make the most of my free time. Lots of stress!

    I picked up some new hobbies. I’ve found it satisfying to start trying things that I was always too self conscious to do before; running, taking photos outside, writing music. I walk a lot now. I listen to podcasts, and I wander around my area. I booked a bunch of little events for Halloween, so for instance today I walked two hours into the center of the city and went to a talk about medieval manuscripts, and then spent another two hours walking back.

    I text myself ideas. Ideas for cool little visual designs, or photographs, or songs, or games I’d like to try to develop. Whether I revisit them, hmm… less often, but making the notes is enough for me right now. I think about my finances, and try to figure out where I could be saving money. I think about people I haven’t spoken to for a long time, and wonder about what small changes I can make to my life just to see what happens.

    It’s hard to exist without occupying or distracting our minds, because the human mind tends to exist in a slightly negative emotional state when it’s not actively engaged with something (I think it’s called the Neutral Mode Network if you’d like to find out a little more about this). It’s uncomfortable, but sitting with my thoughts in a (hopefully mostly) healthy way was ultimately positive for me.

    I’m only a little further into sobriety than you, 198 days, but I can honestly say these past two months have been sincerely transformative for me.

    I hope you can find something in my comment, or in other comments, that helps. There is a stopdrinking community here on Lemmy which seems supportive, so that could also be worth checking out. Otherwise – stick to it, you’re doing a great job! Best of luck! 👍