Husband, Father, Gamer, Nerd

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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I suffer night terrors, not horribly frequently, but frequently enough that they are memorable experiences. I wake up screaming and I apparently scream very loudly.

    Entertainingly they have a common theme across all the years I’ve been having them (they started in my teens, so over 40 years). The always feature men in black leather trenchcoats (think SS), dogs, concertina razor wire, an cliff’s edges.

    I always end up dead either from machine gun fire or going over the cliff.

    I blame The Great Escape.

    I would love to be able to wake up before the screaming starts.




  • I think there is a lot of wisdom here. I’m old, many of my meaningful relationships were formed before three was an internet. Now I use online tools to stay in touch with friends who are friends I have interacted with face-to-face, not people know solely online.

    That’s not to say meaningful relationships cannot be owned online. I have met a number of people IRL who I originally met playing Football Manager or on XBox Live.

    But online relationships are not a substitute for real face-to-face interactions.

    I tell people that making friends needs to be intentional. It takes work and commitment.