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Cake day: August 17th, 2023

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  • This might be relevant, but I was like this for almost my entire life until my 30s. Found out I have a kidney disorder that makes me lose potassium way too fast. Started treating that and most cravings went away.

    My takeaway was that cravings can be driven by nutritional deficiencies. Figure out what you’re missing and eat more of that, or supplement. The cravings can also be totally wrong about what to eat. I would crave purely salty stuff but what I actually needed were bananas, avocados, and strawberries (bc they’re crazy high in potassium). A lot of the foods I craved were actively worse for my cravings (very starchy foods lower potassium levels; worst offenders are pizza and alcohol).

    I’m not saying you have my specific thing, it’s crazy rare; all bodies are unique, however, and yours might be missing something. Keep an eagle eye on what you actually consume and try to correlate cravings to your eating habits.

    Completely unrelated, but if you have ADHD you may have also ingrained the “food=dopamine” correlation deep into your psyche. People often use food to regulate their mood unwittingly and it becomes a destructive habit.

    Sometimes it can be both of these things. So good luck and godspeed.















  • Ah yes, let me scrounge around for the remote someone else in my ADHD household last had in their hand 45 minutes ago and has no idea what they did with it.

    Meanwhile, my small child is coming downstairs for a glass of water while we’re watching Hereditary for the first time. The Roku app is a pile of garbage and won’t connect to my device fast enough, it just shows loading animations. So I just have to cut the power to the TV while I look for the remote.

    Hypothetically, of course.

    Just because you can’t imagine a scenario where it’s convenient doesn’t mean they don’t exist.





  • If you’re able to focus on learning stuff and school was kinda easy, engineering has always been a great career choice for us. Software development is a great one too, and comparatively easier than some of the more difficult engineering disciplines (though still difficult)

    If you don’t want to do a 4 year degree, we also tend to do well in metalworking trades like being a machinist, welder, sheet metal worker, millwright, pattern maker, etc.

    With welding in particular, the skill ceiling is infinite and the pay scales with how rare your skillset is. With enough experience, you can become an inspector if you want a less physically demanding job.

    Some 2 year degrees that lead to pretty stable jobs are instrumentation and process operator. You’ll work in places like chemical plants or wastewater treatment facilities making sure everything stays running. You’re in the same environment for years on end and knowing every inch of your facility is critical.

    Another 2 year degree is in non destructive examination (NDE). Basically training to use fancy gear to make sure manufactured parts aren’t going to fail. NDE technicians are the guys that make sure that metal parts are actually safe to send out into the world.

    If you don’t want to get a degree, and you’re relatively physically fit (or don’t mind getting that way on the job), framing houses and carpentry is a good trade to learn and always in demand. Apprenticing as an electrician can lead to a good career as well, and doesn’t require a degree.

    As far as hobbies go- that’s just… Whatever you like to do. You don’t have to pick one. It’s whatever you’d do to fill your time if you weren’t focused on surviving.