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Cake day: June 26th, 2023

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  • You’re fucked you should give up. That was sarcasm.

    You’re fine, friend. I know the feeling. I dropped out of high school when some credits weren’t gonna transfer and I was gonna graduate late. I got my GED and started college classes during the second semester of my senior year. Guess what? I didn’t finish that either. I work in tech, where you can be self-taught and make a nice living; that isn’t true for most industries, I’m just saying there’s no requirement that we approach education as a cookie cutter absolute.

    You know who else is graduating late? People your age who took a year off to travel abroad. People who had tuition struggles. People who fell on hard times and had to take time off. People who had a family member get sick and they had to care for them. Literally tons of people.

    You’re frustrated and that’s valid. But it’s really a very small issue in the grand scheme of your life. You’re also at an age where things like that feel more important than they really are. Keep your head down. Study. Use the extra time this summer to try to get some experience at an internship or work on some way of furthering your knowledge in your field so you can be first out of the gate when you graduate. Get a tutor if you think that will help. You got this.







  • Good for you! Don’t let stigma keep you from checking yourself in if things get too bleak. It could save your life. But if you have a plan of care that both you and your caregiver agree sounds workable, it’s great that you can avoid interrupting your life.

    I have attempted suicide once and thought about it for a lot of my life. I’m proof that it’s possible to turn things around. I believe in you. Good luck!








  • I was unemployed or slightly self-employed for about six years. It made it almost impossible to find a job. No tech company would call me with such a huge gap in employment. I was trying to get manual labor jobs and no one would call there either. There was a FAANG on my resume, so they knew I would split at the first opportunity to get back into tech. It was horrible.

    Everything changed after I took a menial labor temp gig upgrading iPhones for staff at a hospital. I hated the work. But after four months doing that, I was employable again. I did a phone interview for a Linux sysadmin job at a fintech company and was supposed to do the in-person interview soon after. An IT company (Managed Service Provider) offered me a job before I could interview again and I just jumped on it. Over time, I came to like the work. More than what I did on the tent-pole product at the FAANG. I still work IT because it’s more rewarding to me and it’s easy and I have an independent source of income so I can afford to make less.

    Get a temp gig. They’re easier to get because their disposable. It’ll help make the gap in employment fade into the background of your resume. I’m pretty sure you’ll have more opportunities after. All of this was through LinkedIn.