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  • “Noted”.

    But Don’t ever let people get the impression you’re committing yourself to anything they’ve said unless it actually feels right and is consistent with your needs.

    If that checks out, ask them what actionable first step they recommend for you to get started doing it their way. This also helps you get them to limit themselves to covering that first step with the tacit mutual understanding you will need to dip your toe in with that first actionable step before you are ready for them to dive further with you.

    If not definitely dont ask for more information. Then they will start to expect you to do it their way since you’ve expressed further interest and they have taken the time to break it down for you and become invested inseeing you validate it for them.

    Its also sort of disingenuous and humoring them which some people hate the most. I am one of them, if someone asks me for advice or whatever and i sense they’re just telling me what i want to hear, im probably gonna ghost them












  • Well, Thanks for chiming in, exceedingly valuable contribution, no doubt…Glad you stuck to nothing unmentioned and didnt see fit to at all further broaden the discussion in any way

    Anything else you’re only vaguely aware or knowledgeable of that everyone should drop everything to become privy to your halfhearted passing notice of? Surely it will be worthourwhile

    Nextime, I should just name the thread things D00phy is only vaguely and half-bakedly aware of since that would be far closer to the point for all to be concerned given your template

    God, where would I be had you not intervened and chimed in. It scares me sometime. Reminds me of Captain Obvious from South Park

    I would have been fucked had you not so tepidly intervened, jesus

    🎵Thank-God-we-came-close…🎵