When “doing it”, are you regularly thinking about putting clothes away, which clothes to wash next or if you emptied the washing machine? Or when you washed your clothes the last time?
Is it distracting to the point you get soft (for penis havers) or dry (for ADHDers with vaginas)?
I don’t have ADHD but I’ve had sex with a few who do. Unfortunetely it’s difficult for me as well because the other person doesn’t seem to be into it, or as someone else mentioned, they’re fantasizing about something/someone else. I’m not saying this to make ADHDers self consious. It’s just other other perspective. It can be a challenge for everyone involved.