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Not wanting to go out or be social is more acceptable. Plus more excuses to stay home are available.
What Conan said. But with more grumbling about this or that hurting.
Calming the fuck down
Going to your religious place of worship and pray to your god to be taken to heaven
It’s an arbitrary milestone. For me, I stopped worrying about money around 32.
Finally got my crap together. Career taking off, got rid of my toxic relationships, adopted several cats, getting into really good shape.
I’m in my 40s and, uhhhh…
Depending on how you’ve played your cards the best part is that you’ve ditched your shitty “friends” and have your 5 or less close friends now.
You’ve solidified the music you like. The books you care to read.
I’m 25 and still sorting out the books I care to read. I’m overwhelmed with choice, particularly interesting works in genres that I don’t find much joy in.
Every year is my favorite year. Currently 55. Only reason to go back would be to undo stupid shit i said/did.
You start to develop the ability to not give a fuck.
Nah, I’ve turned 30 this year and I already don’t give a fuck and fear nothing. It scares me a little lol
It’s an absolute superpower, too
This is a morbid take but it applies to me right now.
After 30 or 30s rather, you are in a position of your life where you can look back at everything that has lead up to your life at its current point. If you decide that your life hasn’t been as fruitful as you wanted it to be, you’ve endured a lot of shortcomings, you’ve taken a lot of shit on the chin, you’re not looking forward to growing old where anything and everything will take advantage of you. I can’t blame a single person who decided to call it a wrap, if you know what I mean.
I plan on going on a little more further but there will be a stage in my life where I’ve got nothing to both look forward to and nothing worth of merit that had made my life completely worthwhile, where I’d just call it right then and there.
Yeah I can see that, I’ve been in that space. Ultimately at some point I decided if I was done, why not insteadtry doing something drastic like cutting all ties and trying to travel the world by any means necessary, just starting over and getting all the living I can done, you know?
I once heard someone say:
“My teens were my body’s puberty, my twenties were my mind’s puberty. By my thirties I started to have a handle on things.”
That has really stuck with me. I’ve loved my thirties!
a few years in my thirties was my best time of life. Was able to afford living near the city which was also near my work. I don’t think that has to do with age though as much as stable employment.
tbf the stereotype of young people being happier and more active and carefree has to do with the societal expectations involved with the age too, at least on my experience.
i don’t think anything says we couldn’t ease up as a society with trying to make everyone miserable for a change.
You start to form genuine opinions on topics, not just parroting tidbits back to people.
Age is definitely not a requirement for this lol
I don’t think age determines when that happens
When? I think you mean “if”.
I’d wager a level of maturity and overcoming insecurity is a requirement, which yes some people can achieve at an early age
I’ll be honest if they’re talking politically, this still has not happened to me, like sure I have things that I think are right and wrong but I’ve never been super vocal
Or never at all! Haha
oh? if you say so.
For me it was when everything professionally and personally started taking off.
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