It hasn’t been that much longer of a break for me (4 and a half day weekend), but new years doesn’t usually have me going to several dinners like Christmas or Thanksgiving and I actually got some really good rest, but I’m extremely upset at the idea of going back to work, it doesn’t help that I don’t like my job, but I’m too the point that I want to breakdown and/or quit. I’ve had similar experiences in school, and I’m curious to see if others have this or just me
I want to quit every time my vacation is ending. I used to get so stressed out I’d stay up all night with an aching stomach the night before. I hate it here.
I took today and tomorrow off, because my daughter’s school starts Wednesday. It’s good to start off with a short week. Friday will be a short day as always and then I’m fucking Off into the weekend. I fucking hate my job at the moment, because I was so stupid to become one of the most important people in my division. This is not bragging. It’s a fucking curse. I hate every fucking second of work nowadays.
Edit: please excuse ye inflationary use of the word “fucking”. I’ll leave it as it is, because those convey my emotions on this topic.
Yes it is your body warning you about the degree of longterm burnout that you are being forced to normalize by life that it cannot.
Not thinking about work for a couple of weeks has been soo relaxing. I’m starting to think I should just take a week off every once in a while just to help offset capitalism’s constant demands. 40 hours my ass. I only work like 10 of those each week.
An option I found quite relaxing was, rather than taking a week off, take Wednesdays off for 5 weeks. Now you only have 2 day work weeks, and a day off when everything else is open and relatively quiet.
Wednesdays off is a game changer. Highly recommend. Kids are at school, spouse is at work, the time is for you.
Mon or Fri days off almost always turn into travel, where you lose 50-100% of your ‘vacation’ to transportation.
The mid-week break lets you have two mini-work-weeks without feeling like you’re abandoning your team and you are able to stay aware of the work situation.
A month of Wednesdays is like a solid week off, except you don’t have to cram a week into that last Friday and then figure out what happened on the Monday after.
Great description. I especially didn’t think about Mon/Fri turning into “travel days.” You really sold me on this!
That sounds amazing. I’m definitely going to look into this!
I worked 4 10 hour days with Wednesdays off for an entire year at a previous job.
It was the happiest I’ve ever been while working.
Never working longer than two days in a row does something good to the mind and body.
I miss the 4 10’s I worked at a prior job. That extra day off each week made a huge difference in my well being. Had time to both decompress and get personal stuff done. Hated the job though, management was demanding and unethical, so eventually quit.
There is quite a bit of scientific evidence that doing so also just makes you more productive at work, which might be the most infuriating part for me.
I can’t take vacations because if I do I’ll quit my job.
I don’t come back refreshed and relaxed. I come back pissed that I have to continue slaving away just to barely survive.
I think of this Onion article every time I come back from vacation
https://theonion.com/man-returns-to-work-after-vacation-with-fresh-reenergi-1819574342/
Facts, Nothing like making somebody else rich
It can be crushing.
I’ve been off since 18th December and have no wish to return. I want to continue to eat cheese, chutney, and crackers at home whilst playing Atomfall. Wage-paying Bastards.
It’s going to be three weeks for me. While very relaxing, and I haven’t found a new project, not looking forward to the day after tomorrow.
I’ve been dreading returning to work for the past week during break. Even more so now that RTO is mandatory for the the whole company. I’m desperately looking for remote work elsewhere but it’s been fruitless so far. Why can’t upper management just let its office workers do their jobs the best way they see fit? The announcement from a few months ago already worsened the attrition rate to at least one engineer every week.
Because they only know how to manage by walking around.
The problem is that the talent walks out.
Anytime I have more than like, 4 days off, I always have a worry in the back of my head that I’ll forget how to do my job lol. Its never happened, but I still always worry.
I get this ever time I switch jobs. Like “did I just forget a core skill I’ve spent my life so far mastering? I think I did. Or worse, I’ve been doing easy mode and now it’s gonna get too hard and I can’t do it”
But I always do fine 🤷♂️
I’m a freelancer but can’t really shoulder the financial ups and downs. So I worry I can’t find a stable job but I also worry I will find a stable job.
Amen.
I’m getting off a two week break. I wouldn’t say I’m overwhelmed just… Exhausted by the thought.
Also think I should try week long breaks more often…
I was laid off at the end of summer, and am just starting a new job this week. The level of anxiety is real, even knowing the new job is less responsibility (and money) than my previous one.
Good luck with your new “first day of school!” Hope it goes well!
I on the other hand am ready for my kids to go back to school where they have instructors who are trained, and staff to cook, feed and clean up after them, as well as friends to converse with that they can get their energy out with as opposed to constantly being all up in my face. I LOVE my kids so much but the office is gonna seem like a vacation. Note that I’m COMMISSION ONLY so it’s not like I’m not in a somewhat stressful spot there either….
I am right there with you on this one.
