When I’m working and have a question, I usually ask the ones I know to be knowledgeable and with ample job experience for advice, because they’re the most qualified to give me the best advice.

Sometimes, when I do this, an extrovert who needs to talk will try to answer at the same time the person I asked is answering, meaning I get 2 very similar answers on stereo if that makes sense, but I cannot concentrate on any of the 2 stereo answers.

Sometimes this happens with 3 coworkers: the knowledgeable one I asked the question to and 2 extroverts answering at the same time the person I asked answers.

I hate it when this happens. I’m clearly talking to ONE person, looking at him in the eye. Why do other people feel I’m talking to them, even though I am not making eye contact with them?

I mean, can you guys listen to 2 people answering a question simultaneously and get both answers right?

I’ve started telling them I cannot hear the answer if they speak at the same time and sometimes I have to tell them I’m not talking to them, but to a specific coworker. So far, they’re backing off, but why are (some?) extroverts like this?

To me, the best way to learn something if I’m not reading a book or manual is with one on one conversations: I ask a question, knowledgeable person gives an answer, I write down what I know I’m gonna have to remember and move on. Is this something only introverts do?

  • Ephera@lemmy.mlEnglish
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    15 hours ago

    I mean, depends on the situation. Personally, I wouldn’t call it rude when someone kind of free-fire responds to a question they hear. In that case, best course of action is to just chuckle at them responding synchronously and ask for only one of them to speak at a time.