The short answer is, whatever you want.

For the longest time I too had no idea, though I knew what I didn’t want to do. I just didn’t want to deal with anyone else’s bullshit.

So i made enough money to have my own place and make my own choices.

For now I recommend you take a Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs approach. Secure the Physiological and Safety Needs and the rest will follow.

In order to do P and S in western society you need to make enough money to pay all your own bills.