I was in a talking stage with a woman and she said she had feelings for me but did not want to do any romantic stuff and realized because of her trauma, she was not ready for a relationship. So, I wonder, is it because trauma can interfere with relationships or is it a matter of not actually liking someone romantically if you don’t want to be romantic with them. Everyone presents trauma differently, so for me, I wanna be super romantic with people. I’m not trying to be an ass, I’m trying to understand.

  • FreedomAdvocate@lemmy.net.au
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    9 hours ago

    If you have romantic feelings for someone it means you want to be romantic with them, but you can choose not to be due to other reasons - like previous trauma.