it might not be, but my recent ex did that with others. she said she found out she was aromantic but while we were dating, didn’t have feelings for me and didn’t make jokes or flirt with me but she would with others.
it might not be, but my recent ex did that with others. she said she found out she was aromantic but while we were dating, didn’t have feelings for me and didn’t make jokes or flirt with me but she would with others.
It’s a red flag but not a dealbreaker. I flirt a lot at work because, well, I’m a waitress, it’s part of the job. But my wife is the only one to whom I show my real feelings, good and bad.
It sounds like your ex trusted you with her real feelings. In this case, that meant the relationship was doomed, but isn’t that better than stringing you along or manipulating you?