I have a pan friend who is the only trans ally I know irl. Few months ago I decided to come out to her. However, I don’t know where to start.
I was alone with her several times recently, but I just fail to start a conversation every time.
She doesn’t seem to have any problem with being out to everyone, so it’s harder to have a serious conversation about my struggles. What should I do?
When I really struggled to come out to people, sometimes I would try a method like writing a little note on a piece of paper and slipping it to them. I found that easier than initiating the conversation by speaking.
My advice is to just not think about it - don’t anticipate, don’t fret, don’t think - just do it.