As weird as the title sounds, my family really dislikes me using Tuta and not Gmail. Is your family also like this?

“Come on, Sarah, can’t you just be normal and use Gmail like everyone?”

  • my mom, scolding me.
  • Lumidaub@feddit.org
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    14
    ·
    11 hours ago

    Huh? What difference does it make to them…?

    Wait, thinking about it, is it because name at gmail is easier to remember for them? Because gmail is the “standard” in their minds?

    • Meow-Misfit@lemmy.worldOP
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      2
      ·
      5 hours ago

      Probably. But my parents are really crazy. This kind of thing was kinda expectable over the guys who start to yell at each other because of a pot’s shape.

    • cRazi_man@europe.pub
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      20
      ·
      edit-2
      9 hours ago

      Normies find it triggering if things take extra steps or aren’t proceeding in the normal way they expect.

      My family (and wife especially) get triggered…“why can’t we just be normal and use Netflix, why do we have to tolerate any buffering on your Jellyfin thing. What was the email address you use again? Why don’t you just use WhatsApp like everyone else, no one uses this Signal nonsense. I’m sending you photos on Google Photos or WhatsApp, why should I have to figure out adding them to you NAS drop folder. What is this MailBox nonsense, why don’t you just share your calendar from google calendar”.

      A lot of tech tools are social tools. Other people don’t want to think about this stuff. They don’t care about stuff that doesnt affect them. They don’t care about my FreshRSS feeds, that doesnt affect them. But they do care that I can’t send them photos on Google Photos.