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  • BestBouclettes@jlai.lutoAutism@lemmy.worldDAE?
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    2 days ago

    The problem with straight cut statements like “autistic people don’t understand social cues” is that, it really depends on many many things. Like your environment growing up, your personality, your culture, etc. It’s a generic statement with layers upon layers of nuance.

    Personally, I realized that people and social cues don’t make sense to me, most of the time, like they were born with a manual I never got.
    But then, growing up, you start catching up things and build on that. To me, the autistic thing about it, is that it’s a conscious effort to understand and try to make sense of it.





  • BestBouclettes@jlai.lutoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comHaha I'm in danger
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    2 months ago

    I don’t know if you feel comfortable with that, but I am pretty open when it comes to my diagnosis.

    If I’m asked something like this, I’m usually straight forward about my coping mechanisms.
    I have autistic traits and I wear earplugs because I’m very sensitive to noise or wear sunglasses because I can’t handle the light right now, etc.

    Most of the time it’s a “oh okay, makes sense” kind of answer, sometimes I get asked more question about it.