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Trust/Honesty

You can’t build anything lasting on lies.

It’s a very special feeling when you plant your own seeds for the first time. Congrats on your success!

Symfonium is ridiculously customizable and well worth the one time cost IMO, but like you said it requires purchase and through the Play store.

DSub is on Fdroid and works well though it lacks many of the customization options that Symfonium has. It’s kind of like a mobile mode of the default Navidrome webUI.

Those are the two I keep installed at all times because I use them for different things. The other options for Android either had weird quirks I didn’t like or didn’t offer functionality I needed.

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Good on you for helping a friend 💚

If you’re using the app, uninstall it. Delete your bookmarks, etc. Make it more than an idle thought to be on the site.

Use the time you would normally spend doomscrolling on reddit to do something productive on Lemmy. Look for new communities to join, reply to posts you would normally just upvote, post something to a community that could use a boost, etc. The place is far from empty but more interaction really helps to drive growth and build friendships.

See you around mate. 💚

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We have a private Prosody server on a VPS. The device issue may have been a setting you needed to change on your clients. By default there’s a built in delay when sending notifications to multiple devices, so whatever is seen as your active device will get the updates in real time and the others won’t. I have all mine set to no delay and all the messages sync instantly on PC and phone, assuming the phone isn’t doing any type of power or data saving that messes things up.

Gajim on PC (Linux) and Monocles on mobile (Android) are my favorites. Gajim is available on every desktop platform you mentioned. Monocles is a fork of conversations.im.

I don’t actually have a recommendation for iOS as I don’t use it. I know at least one person in our usual group does though, so I’m assuming there’s a client on that side that doesn’t suck?

Curious about what wasn’t working with matrix?

Performance was never amazing even with a dedicated server for local users. We also had insane issues with pedos and traffickers joining our rooms to spam their telegram links or CSAM. It got to the point that it wasn’t fun to use and Matrix never seemed to care. They claim to be tough on that type of thing but our experience didn’t reflect that.

how XMPP is comparing?

More reliable which counts for a lot. Still working through some stuff with our host and messing with some add-ons for XMPP but over all everyone is happier.

I haven’t used XMPP in like over a decade. Is it still about the same? Better? I don’t think I was that aware of its group abilities.

I’d say it’s roughly on par with most of the better known chat solutions these days if you’re looking for something that’s reliable but not bleeding edge. It’s been working well for us, YMMV. Groups are a thing and work well and there are even bridges to Matrix and many other platforms.

How does the excryption compare? about the same if you choose the right option?

Default is blind trust OMEMO which works very well. I recommend checking it out for yourself if you aren’t familiar to make sure it’s appropriate for your threat model.

You got a favorite linux client?

Gajim was the early favorite and I haven’t found anything compelling enough to change. I’ve tried probably a dozen clients total across various platforms and Gajim mostly just works. These days that counts for a lot with me.

(I know I am pestering you with too many questions, feel free to ignore)

Nothing but love here mate. Some days I have time to answer, sometimes I don’t. It’s never personal. 💚

We had a small group (under 50 people) that used it daily for several months as our primary means of communication after moving from Matrix. I think the privacy/anonymity features are sound, and the creator/lead dev seemed to be making the removal and prevention of CSAM on the platform a priority which is great.

We always had problems though. Users on iOS and Windows had regular problems with the chat losing track of where it was, images not loading, images getting stuck as your “last read” position, etc. Users on all platforms including Linux and Android would randomly lose the ability to see messages from others in rooms, fail to receive notifications, or upload images that only they could see. There’s also a fair bit of feature disparity across platforms. While we were using it iOS lacked the ability to mark all messages in a room as read, meaning some people were stuck scrolling slowly through hundreds of messages a day or living with unread message counts in the thousands.

We ended up moving to XMPP. Maybe in the future when the platform is more evenly developed we’ll give it another shot, but for now XMPP is working better for everyone across multiple platforms.

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In my defense I might be encouraging plant reproduction but there’s someone else in your world known for wearing suggestive bracelets and being a saucy plant partner. That’s the most likely culprit IMO. 💚

I will always advocate for hand trimming over machine trimming but I know that isn’t everyone’s preference and it can be physically challenging. I think it makes a big enough difference to justify the time it takes if people are willing and able to do it though. Having beautiful weather to relax and trim in helps the motivation tremendously for sure. It can be a very satisfying time to reflect on the harvest and the growing season, and brainstorm ideas for future grows.

I’m so happy for you that your growing season wasn’t a bust!

Magic plant is magic 💚

Someone please figure out a clever way to incorporate this into a 360 no scope zinger.

This is actually the third (and final) version of this community on Lemmy lol

“Did it kick in yet?”
giggles at own shoelaces
“Nah, I don’t feel it”

Awesome!

An XMPP server. Users with local accounts (long time friends) have almost no restrictions on what can be sent, file size, etc. We have private groups set up, dms, public rooms, etc, more or less like discord. After trying many of the popular chatting and file sharing platforms XMPP seems to be the one that works best for the most people on the most platforms within our group. YMMV.