I’m in a similar situation but it’s my mother (and other relatives), not my wife’s. A big part of the problem for me is they keep making the same fucking mistake and just want to pretend it never happened when the consequences arrive. One mistake is forgivable, but she’s done it three times now. If I let it slide, she’ll just keep making the same mistake, so yeah I’m the one pressuring her on this issue.
I’m in a similar situation but it’s my mother (and other relatives), not my wife’s. A big part of the problem for me is they keep making the same fucking mistake and just want to pretend it never happened when the consequences arrive. One mistake is forgivable, but she’s done it three times now. If I let it slide, she’ll just keep making the same mistake, so yeah I’m the one pressuring her on this issue.