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  • Planet crafter - Holy shit is that game janky, ugly, badly designed etc.

    Conan Exiles - I did enjoy it for a while, but it quickly becamse such a chore since so little is explained so you spend so much time having to look things up, and even then it’s often not obvious what to do. I payed solo, and there is a point where doing that just feels impossible, I ended up wanting to cheat to do some things and that’s a point I never cross so I just stopped playing.

    I really want to play some game like those; survival with base building, exploration etc, But I think I’ve exhausted the list of ones that are good enough for me. I’ve played Minecraft, Terraria, Star Bound, Enshrouded, Subnautica, Grounded, Valheim, Satisfactory, Factorio, The Forest and more that I’m not remembering right now. There are some that are in early access that I’m interested in but I’ve stopped playing EA games, I now always wait till full release.

    If anyone has any suggestions I’d be very happy, I’m craving something to dive deep into. I’m only interested in Single player games through, at least ones that can be played as such.


  • I don’t see what’s weird about it, if they are aware of it and possibly have other things that take priority what else could they say? They were just truthful and straight to the point. It’s extremely hard to handle all feedback and stuff from a community as solo/indie devs, it’s not easy on any level for that matter. If you took several seconds more and emotional effort to be super nice to every single person who interacts with your game we wouldn’t have any games releasing at all. It’s important to keep your responses to a minimum while also making it clear what the situation is. I think that was a good reply, not offensive at all and made you understand that they know and will fix it.







  • M137@lemmy.worldtoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comBedsheets
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    14 days ago

    I have never done this, and I’ve been on long term sick leave for 15 years due to my executive disfunction/action paralysis. I have gone months without changing bedclothes but not once taken them off without having clean ones to put on at the same time. I’m pretty sure this is a problem from something else and not what’s stated.






  • M137@lemmy.worldtoAutism@lemmy.worldHell on earth
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    24 days ago

    On the other side of this; I often feel like people think they already know what’s being said and then interrupt or at least show that they aren’t listening anymore but they actually don’t know. So all that ends up happening is that they misunderstand and now the whole conversation has gotten bad. It’s very common for people to say stuff to give context, and that might sound like that’s all they’re saying but they are just making sure the listener is aware of that context. And when people explain things over and over with different words it just means they’re doing their best to describe something in a specific way and translating that into a conversation is not easy. It’s either because they themselves aren’t satisfied with how they said it and are actually showing you respect by really trying to find the right words. Or it’s because they see that your understanding of what they said isn’t what they really meant.

    Don’t ever think you know exactly what someone is saying until they show you they are satisfied with both their own explanation and your replies that show you understand. Show some respect to people by giving them the extra few seconds or minutes to get to where they need, especially with friends and family.

    A reoccurring thing throughout my whole life with friends and acquaintances that have ADHD is just this, they think they know the whole story and that there’s nothing more to it and that every second after that is wasted time etc. but SO many times that is a huge mistake. And it can easily fuck up relationships, it’s not a good thing.

    And just to be clear: I have ADHD, though mine works pretty differently than how it does for the vast majority of people. In no way saying better or worse, those words don’t exist in this topic for me, just differently. And every single person is different from the next, both including and excluding any kind of “disorder” (not a fan ot the word). Just saying that I see similarities with the vast majority of people that have a diagnosis (or not but are clearly on the spectrum) and have only ever met two people who have the same “wavelength” as me in this.