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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • My parents would do that routinely, but we didn’t mind because it was usually asking the lines of, “Hey, we were in the area, and we realized it’s been awhile since we took you out for an expensive meal you could never afford on your own. Do you have time to go out for dinner?”

    I can’t think of a time when it bothered us.

    However, I have a “GO AWAY!” doormat at the front door for everyone else.


  • I don’t spend a lot of time dealing with churches. I certainly don’t believe in any of what they say anymore. However, I have gone to some weddings.

    When my youngest cousin was getting married, we arrived at church and were greeting family that we hadn’t seen in years.

    The priest yelled at us because we weren’t behaving in a way he felt was respectful (hugging, laughing, experiencing joy). I don’t know what he learned about Christ, but the Jesus I was taught about would have laughed in his face.

    When my wife’s brother was getting married, the priest lectured the entire wedding party at the rehearsal about his belief that children shouldn’t be at weddings. As the parents of the ring bearer, my wife and I felt a bit attacked. However, I just assume he didn’t want to be too close to temptation.








  • We do about $300/kid. We haven’t increased that over the years with inflation.

    Kid’s are all grown up now. A couple years ago we started having everyone make Amazon wishlists. It was too difficult to figure out what everyone wanted. The wishlists make it easier for everyone. Also, we can put all our purchases on an Amazon store card and get 12 months interest free.

    (I know. Amazon.)

    Last year I also gave each kid a $300 Amazon gift card because everything sucks, and I didn’t want them to feel pressure for the holiday. I’ll do that again this year.

    It probably seems crazy, but it works for us.