knightly the Sneptaur

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Cake day: July 5th, 2023

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  • As an enby who’s best described as “the polar opposite of an agender person”, I experience gender both intrinsically and extrinsically. Dysphoria is a good example of the former; I used to have a deep and profoundly uncomfortable sense of “wrongness” about my body, like the feeling of wearing your shoes on the wrong feet but for skin texture, body odor, the shape of one’s hands, vocal pitch, etc etc etc.

    Extrinsically, I’m mostly seen as a guy, which can be irritating when it results in getting called “Sir”, or a pleasant experience when someone recognizes that I’m not one of the guys.






  • You’re not fucked, it just feels that way because you’re breaking down walls you put up to try and protect yourself from the truth.

    You’ve got at least one person that loves and supports you, and all the time you need to figure out what the cracked egg means for you. Come on out of your shell as slowly as you need to, and don’t be afraid to reach out since there are plenty of us that have gone through the same thing you’re experiencing now.