I started HRT at 36 myself. The only downside is needing a lot of hair removal that I haven’t even gotten started on yet. XD

If they drop old.reddit.com and kill my RSS subscriptions then they’ll have single-handedly eliminated the last acceptable way to read reddit.

Ah well, it was fun while it lasted.

No, he’s just the one who gets credit for it.

Give him the gentle primer, “Can’t always judge a book by it’s cover, if you make an honest mistake then accept the correction with a quick apology and move on. It does suck the first few times it happens because it feels very personal, but that’s how we train out our systemic biases so we can make better assumptions or know when to ask in the future. There’s no shame in learning.”

Whether it’s a choice or something that was imposed upon them isn’t really relevant, deprogramming either case needs therapy with some extra steps.

Luigi showed the world that if you write your manifesto on your ammo then the media will spread it everywhere.

4channers

Felt, yeah.

Figuring out what I want is hard enough, and now I’m expected to figure out how to convey those thoughts to other people in real-time‽ Ain’t nobody that needs that kind of stress, I’d rather go hungry than impose on people…

I realized I wanted to stop living in Texas the first time I traveled outside of the state in my early teens. This state is a fascist nightmare and the quality of life has been slipping for the entire time I’ve been alive. The open hostility to trans folks like myself was the last straw.

I tried once in my 20’s, but I was too homesick for my partners to leave them behind. It took another 15 years after that point before the universe conspired to let me move to Colorado and bring them with me.

I went back to RSS.

You realize Apple is already the same way, right? You have to jailbreak them to install anything outside of the app store.

Likewise! I’d love to be seen as a person of mixed gender, but I’ll happily settle for being as visible as I can.

I know exactly how you mean, you’re basically describing my exact presenation~<3

I like to say that I’m sort of the opposite of agender, genderfull rather than genderless, but it’s really difficult to achieve that look. Hell, I can go out hiking topless in public and nobody even notices my tits, my moustache might as well be an cloaking spell. XD

That is to say, there are more folks like us than you might think, we’re just one of the least visible segments of the trans community because even if you’re used to recognizing trans people and agender folk, there’s no set aesthetic for us in-betweeners yet.

I’m an it/they/he enby, and I feel you. Being somewhere between Femboy and Trans Tomboy is a weird space, even after two years of hormone therapy folks still reflexiely gender me male.

It’s awkward to be called “sir”, but until more folks start seeing people of mixed gender I’ll have to be content to put up with it.

Linux.

Parenting

Dunno yet, but I’ve quit using better products than Android for smaller offenses than this. I’ll probably settle down to do some research tonight.

Switching to a Linux phone

If you could get that crypto nonsense out of my Weird Guy tier and down with the Outcasts, then this would be more accurate. =3

At the risk of breaking the trans prime directive, you sound a lot like a trans tomboy or maybe an enby. Hormone therapy might be right for you~<3