I don’t like sex, I don’t have a sex drive. At the same time, I don’t feel repulsed by it either. So I’d be willing to have a schedule so that my hypothetical partner has his needs met.

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    3 hours ago

    No need to reply if this is too personal. When you say “similar situation”, you mean your wife is ace? I dont know much about this so Im curious why else a spouse might not want sex at all.

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      3 hours ago

      I don’t know what the terminology is exactly.
      She enjoys sex, but she doesn’t really have a sex drive. For her it’s a completely optional fun activity, not a need.
      But we cuddle and kiss a lot.