I discovered this by accident. It may not work 100% of the time.
If you create a patreon account using a simplelogin alias, patreon will automatically flag it as suspicious after a few minutes and delete the account.
This means you can make an account. Purchase whatever you wanted and wait. The account will be deleted as suspicious and the money is automatically refunded.
but then I have to click on that domain name which I think might give me a horrible disease
(jk thanks for the heads up. generally people I’m interested in on patreon I just cough up the change but its good to have options. ) And as always the best way to get good advice is to put out some mediocre advice and let people who know more correct the record lol