StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 21 hours agoWhat makes someone a "genuine" person to youmessage-squaremessage-square15fedilinkarrow-up115arrow-down10
arrow-up115arrow-down1message-squareWhat makes someone a "genuine" person to youStarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 21 hours agomessage-square15fedilink
minus-squareℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down2·21 hours agoLike, genuinely a person? Or do you mean a person who thinks that being “authentic” is more important than being nice?
minus-squareStarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·20 hours agoI suppose if you were to distill it down, my question could also be, what makes you trust someone?
minus-squareℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down1·20 hours agoMe. I make me trust someone. But to get back to your question, by “genuine” do you mean “sincere”? Because that’s not the same as “trustworthy”.
minus-squareStarvingMartist@sh.itjust.worksOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·20 hours agoI suppose so yes
minus-squaresopularity_fax@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·17 hours agoAuthenticity and kindess are seperate categories. Why the suggested conflict?
minus-squareℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·16 hours agoBecause IME the only people who talk about “authenticity” or their “genuine self” use it as an excuse for rude or selfish behavior.
Like, genuinely a person?
Or do you mean a person who thinks that being “authentic” is more important than being nice?
I suppose if you were to distill it down, my question could also be, what makes you trust someone?
Me. I make me trust someone.
But to get back to your question, by “genuine” do you mean “sincere”? Because that’s not the same as “trustworthy”.
I suppose so yes
Authenticity and kindess are seperate categories. Why the suggested conflict?
Because IME the only people who talk about “authenticity” or their “genuine self” use it as an excuse for rude or selfish behavior.